Category Archives: DiLA Blog

Well, That Puts Things Into Perspective

Because I like to mentally torment myself whenever possible, I was inspired to create a list of things that did not exist the last time I had a legitimate first date.  By first date, I mean an actual “Gee, you’re kinda pretty, would you like to go out with me and form a meaningful lifetime

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The Light in the Courtyard

The light in the courtyard is mellowing as the sun slowly sets in Los Angeles. I’m sitting by a fountain at LACMA listening to the sounds of the Encore Saxophone Quartet. I can’t begin to name the piece, though it feels remarkably Gershwin-like (are those strains of Summertime I hear?). The children who were running

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My Jeans Mean What???

I’m trying to grasp the subtle (and not so subtle) nuances associated with clothing messaging—and I don’t mean t-shirt logos.  Don’t worry if you are confused. I am also befuddled by the concept. Apparently, there continues to be a vast underground network that decides the meaning of certain accessories and fabric colors. For instance, this

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Have The Relationship You Want

As I mentioned earlier in the week, I’ve been reading Rori Raye’s ebook: Have the Relationship you Want.  I wasn’t sure I’d get much out of it– I’m not in a relationship… in fact, I’m so far away from one that I can barely remember what the thing looks like.  But I took the plunge

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So, What Do You Want?

I’m reading a book right now for an upcoming review (more about that later), and I ran across this quote:  “Wanting something is essential to getting it.” (Have The Relationship You Want, Rori Raye).  Now while this was said in the context of maintaining or starting relationships, it set my brain on a slightly broader

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