My Letter to Fear

Based on interviews with women, these essays about life (and all of its funny, sad and ridiculous aspects) were published in 2014.

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Dating in LA and Other Urban Myths

A 10-episode web series starring Lesley Fera, Jen Lilley, Tamara Taylor, Kris Polaha and Patricia Steffy.

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Showcase

Pieces from "My Letter to Fear" were featured in a one-night only special showcase event on September 20, 2014.

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Found It!

http://www.cnn.com/2007/WORLD/africa/02/01/guinea.marriage.ap/index.html I have found it. Click on that link, and you will see my new destination. I am packing as we speak. Then all I have to do is find a fish, or build a house. Then bam—married. Way easier than filling out the 27 page form. Way easier than actually trying to smile through

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Anyone?

Anyone see American Idol tonight? Anyone else start crying uncontrollably? Just me? Damn. But seriously– the man who kept his “lady (of 20 years)love’s” spirits up through her cancer by getting a petition signed so he could audition on the show (I think he said he was 64). Yeah… some of you know who I’m

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DiLA Blog FAQ

Because I’ve been fortunate to gain many new readers in the last few months, I thought I would repost and update this FAQ as sort of an introduction. Who am I? Read below to find out all you’ve ever wanted to know (or at least what I’m willing to tell you today) about me. *****

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Wingman

I decided to look for a wingman (or a wingman trainer). Is it a wingman if your buddy is female? Wingwoman? Wingperson? Winged one? Grant it, with me it’s more like “wing-and-a-prayer”-man, but this could be important. Do you audition for these? Put up a notice on Craig’s list? Could I force one of my

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